The shower is tomorrow. You have nothing. Take a breath. You have more options than you think, and none of them involve panicking.
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You can pull this off. Here's how, ranked by time available.
Buy an e-gift card from Amazon, Target, or a baby retailer. Print or email it. Pair it with a handwritten card at the shower. Takes 5 minutes and new parents genuinely appreciate the flexibility.
Diapers (size 1 or 2), a pack of wipes, and a onesie. Every Target, Walmart, or pharmacy has these. Practical, always needed, and never returned. Throw in a small stuffed animal to make it feel personal.
Show up with a card that says "your gift is on its way." Order from the registry that evening. Etiquette allows up to two months after the shower. The parents will appreciate a registry item more than a panicked in-store grab.
You can. It is not a social catastrophe. But most guests will bring something, so arriving empty-handed is noticeable. A card with a genuine note and a plan to send something later is the minimum that keeps things comfortable.
According to Emily Post's etiquette guidelines, a gift is expected but not mandatory. What matters more is showing up and being present. The worst option is skipping the shower entirely because you don't have a gift.
Baby shower gifts sit in a procrastination sweet spot. The event feels far away when the invitation arrives, and then suddenly it's this weekend. The gift isn't urgent enough to do today, but the deadline doesn't move.
The fix is a reminder set when you RSVP. Not a mental note. Not a sticky on your desk. An email that arrives a week before the shower with enough time to browse the registry, order, and have it arrive. Next time, set one from the baby shower gift reminder page the moment you say yes.
Your presence matters more than a gift. Skipping because you forgot to buy something turns a small miss into a bigger one.
A gas station stuffed animal or a novelty onesie you grabbed in a rush will feel exactly like what it is. A gift card or diapers are better.
Spending $200 to compensate for being last-minute doesn't fix the timing. Spend what you would have spent with more time. See the budget guide for ranges.
Not technically rude, but it is noticeable. Most guests bring gifts, so arriving without one stands out. A card with a heartfelt note and a promise to send something soon is a good fallback.
Yes. Etiquette guides generally give you up to two months after the shower. Include a short note acknowledging the delay. Many parents prefer this over a rushed last-minute buy.
A gift card to a baby retailer like Target or Amazon is always appreciated and can be purchased digitally in minutes. Diapers and wipes are another safe bet if you can stop at a store on the way.
The same amount you would have spent with more time, typically $25 to $75. Rushing does not change what is appropriate. If budget is tight, a $25 gift card is perfectly acceptable.
Yes. According to a 2023 National Retail Federation survey, gift cards have been the most-requested gift category for 17 consecutive years. New parents appreciate the flexibility to buy exactly what they need.
One email, a week before the shower. Enough time to buy something thoughtful instead of something desperate. Free, no account needed.
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